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Have trouble attracting women? Here's some news you can use!

Men of all types, looks, personalities and personal status often find themselves in the unenviable position of having trouble when it comes to attracting women. There can be a number of reasons why this may be true, but in most cases, it's entirely fixable! Let's take a look at some of the most common reasons men find attracting women difficult.

1.Some men simply lack confidence, feeling that other men are surely more fascinating, better looking, intelligent or cooler – there are dozens of attributes you might think of to explain your problems in attracting women. One way to banish these unrealistic thoughts is to make a list of your own good points. You may be surprised to find the list grows quite long. Take a walk around the mall and you'll see that you compare favorably with the vast majority of the men – men who are with women and families. Build your confidence. Get a self-help book. Ask a girl out.

2.Are you a slob? Well, there you go. Most women don't go for utterly sloppy guys. Clean up your act and appearance and watch your troubles in attracting women disappear, overnight!

3.How do you relate to women? Do you start off a conversation with an 'all-about-me' diatribe, in a loud voice, drowning out her end of the conversation? This will turn off any woman. Try having a conversation with a trusted friend and ask for feedback on how you portray yourself. Tell your friend you want them to be honest and not pull any punches. After all, if this is indeed your problem in attracting women you'd like to get to know, you surely want to correct what's standing in your way.

4.Are you the stingy sort? For example, when you go out for coffee, is it 'dutch'? You don't have to be the high roller to attract women, but you can't act like Scrooge all the time either. Women like the occasional Prince Valiant treatment, you know. If you're invited for dinner at her house, it's always nice to bring a bouquet of flowers or a bottle of wine.

5.How's your hygiene? Some men just don't give hygiene its due. While you can hang out in the locker room with the guys, with terrible sweaty smells permeating the air, this doesn't go over well with women on dates! So make an assessment of your hygiene practices and make the necessary changes. Have that trusted friend help you in this mini-makeover.

6.If none of the above criteria meets your profile, maybe you're just looking in the wrong places. If you love ice skating or bowling, go where the action is! You'll meet plenty of women who are just as enthusiastic about the sport as you are. This works for whatever your interests may be.

7.Try to cultivate a good sense of humor. Be sensitive to her needs and desires, putting yours on the back burner, if necessary. Women love a man who listens!

All in all, attracting women is not so difficult as you might think. After all, women are interested in attracting men, too. Why shouldn't it be you?

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